The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:43 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2025
Your H may be a "great guy" because he cooks and cleans and treats you well.
But he’s cheated often.
Just remember serial killer Ted Bundy was a charming guy too. Came across as a nice well mannered young man. Wouldn’t hurt a fly.
Please don’t overlook the fact that your nice guy Husband has cheated more than once, more than twice.
Don’t let the other stuff blind you as to who and what he is.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.