Lostandtorn (original poster new member #86272) posted at 3:17 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2025
I recently cheated on my husband. And I am not making excuses for my actions. I take complete responsibility. But I am trying to sort out all of my feelings and take a hard look at myself. My husband has cheated on me at least 2 times in the past. 10 plus years ago. About a month ago, I saw that he was following all of these instagram sites of barely clad women, most in compromising positions. I confronted him and he agreed to stop following them. When I asked him why he was looking at those sites, he said if I dressed like that, he wouldn’t have to look at those women. I am also 90% sure he watches porn.
I would like to get opinions from both wayward spouses and betrayed spouses on your opinion on this type of behavior.
Formerpeopleperson ( member #85478) posted at 11:02 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2025
Women are big consumers of "romance" novels.
If a married woman enjoys such, is she cheating?
It’s never too late to live happily ever after
